“Smile though your heart is achingSmile even though it’s breakingWhen there are clouds in the sky, you’ll get byIf you smile through your fear and sorrowSmile and maybe tomorrowYou’ll see the sun come shining through for you…” This song is one I’ve known as long as my memory can recall. I remember hearing it in…
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Let’s ride!
When you are compatible with someone but don’t have many interests in common, are you doomed? In my humble opinion, I say no. Depending on a few things. If you occupy a similar energy and overall mindset/attitude and mutual understanding of expectations, this can usually offset contrasts in hobbies. I’ve been in situations when I…
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How can something so similar in one aspect be so different in another? Everyone has different limitations and capabilities. What makes some limitations acceptable and others not? The more understood and common limitations are, they are obviously going to be judged less and often may even bring people together, due to bonding over a relatable…
Read more“…Owl’s talons clenching my heart.”
WARNING: If you have lost a loved one due to suicide, please note the below blog post speaks candidly regarding the subject. Hugs to all dealing with depression and/or loss of someone due to this ongoing battle. I’m sure most of you are familiar with Sylvia Plath and the darker side of her life. But…
Read moreTeary eyes and warm fuzzies
“I’m proud of you.” Those four words have so much power. More than I can even comprehend. Positive affirmations are real and can have a profound impact on each individual. Sometimes, the compliments that make us the most emotional and uncomfortable are the words we’re longing for most. Specific words may make us uncomfortable because…
Read more“Sometimes I’ll start a sentence and I don’t even know where it’s going…I just hope I find it along the way”.
Have you ever thought, “Wow, that person is so nice. I like their energy. I wish I knew how to approach them…” I can attest that, yes, I have thought this a few times recently. I’d be at the gym or out for a walk, there’s a vibe or energy exuding from this person you…
Read moreWhat is love?
“What is love? Oh baby, don’t hurt me. Don’t hurt me, no more…”, credits to Haddaway for some jamming tunes from 93! Were you bobbing your head, or was that only me? Love…what is it? What does love mean to you? Can you only have one true, authentic love in your lifetime? Or is it…
Read more“One sec. Let me get my thoughts together…”
Let’s all roll a tire, shall we? Introverts are naturally more independent and often radiate while working on solo projects. Shocking, right? My thoughts are comparable to one big wheel being rolled along with a stick. I push “it” along the pavement, and it rolls swiftly, no one really hears it coming, alas, it comes….
Read morePick One: Face the Wicked Witch or Run into the Forest?
How much do you need to push yourself out of your comfort zone to experience personal growth and develop as a person? Being a person who relishes in meaningful, quality conversations, reading by candlelight or adventures outdoors, I find that most situations that involve a forced social setting (like networking) or obligatory appearances make my…
Read moreRegimented or Spontaneous? Both, please.
When are you happiest? Alone? With people? A happy blend of both? Do you enjoy a life of spontaneity and freedom from routine? Or do you find you draw towards regimented days and obligations to center you? I realized I sometimes find myself longing for what I don’t have. If I’m constantly on the run,…
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